Stephen remembers vividly the first time he saw Marietta.He was late for a dinner party one stormy evening in February. Ages: Both 62 Years married: 35 Occupations: Part-time dental hygienist; Realtor How did you know he was the one? He didn't have a job, he wasn't a college grad and I was, but I saw his potential. He taught me that, too, though I am still not a hundred percent there yet. Choose your battles and understand that as you change, your mate also changes. We were together a lot and that really made the marriage work. Longtime wives tell O what drew (and still draws) them to their husbands and offer advice to the young and un-hooked-up. And we'd have to take the kids because we were too poor to have a babysitter. Now I know him well enough not to say things in ways that are going to hurt him. Ages: Both 51 Years married: 30 Occupations: Wedding coordinator; advertising executive How did you know he was the one? We were sophomores in high school, and I used to watch him come out of the boys' bathroom and go to the water fountain every day at lunch. We officially met at a formal school Easter dance, and we were inseparable from that night on. Jerry walked in last night and said, "Want to go to Reno? Marietta was among the dozen or so guests already seated at the table when he finally arrived, half frozen, snow still clinging to his hair.“I couldn’t tell you who else was in the room that night,” Stephen said like a bashful teenager, years later.Best Wishes My bf is 35 and I'm 18 at first I was scared but I really fell in love with him and we get along so good his daughter is a few years younger than me and loves me his family loves me and age is nothing but a number as long as your mature enough to handel the situation thers shouldn't be any problems. i hear you but if he is that older than you take my word for it he wants a women he can control.. I just cant see her being ok with me having a relationship with someone twice my age. My only plan is to say that i think i really fancy him and then tell her that we kissed one time and that he wants to take me to coffee.
Younger men are as adventurous outside of the bedroom as they are inside it, and they’ll bring out a more youthful, vibrant side of you, says Lori Bizzoco, founder and executive editor of Cupids “He will see you as smarter and worldlier, so he’ll want to please you, not just physically but emotionally and intellectually,” she says.my mom loves him, but i've had alot of trouble because people judge us. so idont care what people think about me its my life not theres i was with a 30 and im 37 and i got picked on but i just laughed and told them i picked him up at the highschool.so just tell them that you picked him up at the nursing home.they bust your **** or say something to you.. tell them look stop talking **** that you dont want to hear it anymore and if they cant accept who you are with then i would talk to them anymore.. I have gone through the same with people (freinds) who have had opinions of me and what I do. You will never keep people happy, so don't even involve their personal opinion in your personal relationship. If anyone says anything to you or even looks at you strangely,just say "I'm respected" that's what matters to me! That is normal in some cultures and not a bad idea.because if there your true freinds they will be happy for you no matter who you are with.them judge you maybe there just jealous.the i do not care additude and it will eventually stop.. It is none of their business and some people love to gossip and embelish their thoughts. If this gentleman truly makes you happy then disregard the naysayers and follow your own heart. well if you're old enough to know what you want and if your mother approves of him, I don't know why you worry too much about what other people say. Im in pretty much the same situation, but its only been a few weeks. She knows him and does like him, but she works for him (as do i, its how we met). I however need to get my children off into the world before I make a commitment to marriage,.. My first 'girl friend' at 19 was my mom's friend - I was her "pool boy".“She smiled at me, and the chill I’d carried in with me instantly vanished.” They exchanged flirtatious glances all through dinner, seated too far apart for actual conversation.Finally, dessert was done, and Stephen began gathering the nerve to approach her.