I don't think a guy who is into older women would refer to himself as a cub.
Thing is, when they have a very specific sexual connotation (especially when the far more commonly accepted meaning is a homosexual one) most people don't want to leave any room for confusion. My friend told me his "locker room" conversation with a co-worker went something like this: "You're 25 and she's almost 40. " "She swallows." So I guess he had his priorities straight. My friend told me his "locker room" conversation with a co-worker went something like this: "You're 25 and she's almost 40. " "She swallows." So I guess he had his priorities straight.
Since he's a man that pays zero attention to these terms used on shows like 'Entertainment Tonight' and magazines such as Vogue or Marie Claire, with a curious face he tells me what she says.
For some of you readers who may not know what a 'cougar' is, its a term used to describe older women who date men at least 8 years or more their JUNIOR.
Me and my lady often joke about the age difference, and at first it was a "thing" in our relationship but now not so much.
Are we at different stages in our life: yes, do we work through it: yes.
It did at the beginning until folks who don't like sexual confidence in older women started vilifying it and until jealous kittens jumped on the bandwagon.
They are looking for an equal and as they have been unable to find it in men their own age, they look for younger men—or in some cases, just seem to attract younger men.
Most cougars are incredibly driven women and as such, need someone with a lot of energy to keep up with them.
There are many cougars who keep themselves very fit, but even the idea that it’s wrinkles/weight alone that will determine someone’s interest in dating is insulting.
Not all younger men like models and just as there are many types of younger girls for men to be interested in, there are just as many types of cougars as well.
It doesn't matter whether the older woman actually has kids.