Other guys, just like you, are attracted to high-quality women. If you’re attracted to her, there’s a very good chance a lot of other guys are going to be as well. It easily brings up fears, doubts, insecurities, problems, and challenges that whilst you might have dealt with in some small way previously, you might not have faced on this kind of level. How do you deal with the guys who like to lurk around your girlfriend like bargain hunters on black Friday waiting to grab that 52” TV they can’t even really afford, let alone need? The plumber who turns up to fix the blocked pipe is going to be a guy.
And even if you could, she’s eventually going to meet more guys. She’s going to get served at her local store by a guy.
Also, last night we get drunk we have sex then she falls asleep.
I wake her up to set her alarm on her phone and she's still drunk.
Over the years, we’ve received thousands of questions from guys about women and dating.
A common question we get asked is: Is it okay to let your girlfriend have guy friends? If your girlfriend is a woman of good character who is loyal and trustworthy, then okay.
However, if she has given you reason to doubt her loyalty, if in the past she has cheated on you or if she goes out often without you with these guy friends, there could be an underlying problem in your relationship.So the girl you’re interested in has too many guy friends and you’re not a fan of that, huh?I mean who wants bae constantly being swarmed by other guys all the time? “But a relationship is all about having trust and blah, blah, blah.” Problem is, it’s not her you don’t trust, it’s the guys around her. And how do you deal with the inevitable jealousy and insecurities that naturally appear in your life? You can complain about how insecure it makes you feel because you know they want to sleep with her and how she needs to stop it. You tell her how she needs to live her life so you feel better and you can leave her if she doesn’t comply. Spending your life trying to control the people she spends time with (The Outer) is a flawed and painful strategy and is never going to allow you to create an incredible relationship with a high-quality woman. One thing you’re never told about attracting high-quality women is almost without exception, you’ll find them surrounded by other guys. And they’re going to want to spend time with her, flirt with her, sleep with her, whatever… How do you deal with them texting her, calling her, wanting to spend time with her? Unless you lock her in a cupboard (holy fuck, please don’t), she’s going to meet guys just by living her life, and you can’t control that.
Alright, so the girl I'm dating right now has a lot of guy friends, that's pretty much all she hangs out with. I mean there's always that thing in the back of my head telling me that maybe she is up to something.