Regardless of which category you fit into, this dating advice can be applied to your situation.1. No matter how much you want to meet someone or several someones, you aren’t going to meet them sitting home thinking about it.There are plenty of readers who are probably reading this and thinking, well that’s common sense.Perhaps you were in a live-in or long-term relationship that ended, so you’re single again.
You’ve been in relationships before and you may want one now, but for whatever reason you haven’t found the right person yet. But according to TODAY’s “This is 50” survey results, only 18 percent of single people in their 50s said they were dating.On the positive side, the age 50-plus daters seem to be pretty darn smart when choosing a date-mate.Maybe you’re divorced and frustrated with dating or haven’t ventured back out to the dating pool.You could be a widow and unsure of ever finding another man like your husband.
Still, people fall in love every day and many of my clients do find that loving man. This might seem harsh, but you are likely telling yourself several lies about love after 40 that are hurting you.