But if that’s not accompanied by a deeper reason for attraction, you may be headed for disappointment.
When you’ve just started dating someone new, there may come a moment when it’s clear he or she expects sex as the next step — and that their interest may wane if you don’t agree. What would you talk about if one of you were physically incapacitated after an accident?
To me, it sounds like you're looking for some signs of affirmation from your guy.
This is healthy and valuable insight that you might not be getting what you need from him or that you're worried he's only using you for sex.
The man in me wants to simply say, “Ask him,” but I also know that any man presented with that question does an internal, “Oh crap, this must be a trick question... While frequent sex is a clear indication of your man's physical interest in you, gauging his other interests/intentions require paying attention to his actions of affection. Answering these questions can give you clues as to how much your lover might be thinking or caring about you beyond the sexual.
Depending on how new your relationship is, the extent to these affectionate efforts might differ. You might find that the most important indicator that he's thinking about, or likes you, is that he pays attention to your preferences and makes deliberate attempts to connect with you on that level.
Does it ever seem like you’re the only one who isn’t interested in meaningless, casual sex?
Did you try Tinder for a couple days before realizing you really don’t want to show up at a strange guy’s place at 2am, have sex, and then leave, never to speak to him again? Hookup culture has made dating harder for everyone.
What do you need to feel happy and fulfilled in your relationship?
Okay, let’s face it, the majority of Tinder users are on the app for one reason and one reason alone – to get laid! Let's put a huge-ass spotlight on the elephant in the room.
But here’s the real question – is simply wanting to get laid such a bad thing?
While some people would rather ride the trend (no pun intended) and embrace casual sex for now, others can’t help but be a little old fashioned about the whole thing.
It may not seem like it sometimes, but dating is still possible even when it seems like everyone just wants to hook up. If a guy suggests coming by his place for a drink, and you’re suspicious that he thinks it’s going to be one of those “watch a movie” scenarios, listen to your intuition.