I am sure that no one expects this of me 🙂 How do I address this issue when I meet someone “quality”?As a man, would you expect to learn what you’re “dealing with” or would you rather not be freaked out in advance and learn it in the process? I’m nineteen years old, I know there is a problem with me because I can’t seem to have a long-term relationship with a guy.Editor's note: Kurtis Smith, the partner blogger, in this piece, explains why most guys dislike virgins. John is enjoying his love life and his sex life while James is struggling on both ends of the rope. After a while, I causally made the "sex move", she gently rebuffed my advances. She then gave me an ultimatum, let's date for a year and then we do the nasty. Getting to a year, we started having friction and I knew deep down I wasn't going to spend much time with her anymore. A few weeks after our first year anniversary, we saw and as expected she came prepared to be disvigined but I ended up breaking up with her. I could have taken her virginity and still broken up with her right? She cried but I felt in my heart that we did the right thing.Mr Smith could be reached via [email protected] details in NAIJ.com’s step-by-step guide for guest bloggers. As a young naive boy, I had tons of female friends but never even had a kiss with anyone. A girl kept her virginity for so long, the guy that takes it away has to be special to her and when he does, she never forgets him. Impatience Let's use John and James' story to understand this point. They meet and while discussing, John asks James, "why all all stress? Heartbreak This part of the article really happened to me. READ ALSO: Listening is your way to a girl’s heart We weren't working and I didn't want to dirvigin her and break up with her too. Fast forward about four years after our breakup, she wasn't a virgin any longer, one thing led to another we did the nasty as "just friends".Or maybe you're the one who made a mistake in your past and your virginity is gone.Maybe you're wondering, "Will any Christian still want to marry me?
But then you meet and fall in love with someone who was saved later in life, after having lived according to worldly standards.
" It hurts God deeply when we sin, though sexual sins are especially damaging because not only do they hurt God, they also hurt us and those we love (like potential spouses).
Even though God puts our sins as far from us as the east is from the west when we have repented of our sin and put our lives in Christ's hands (Psalm 1), people still have long memories and hold grudges.
The longest of my relationships lasted about three months.
I’ve dated a lot, since I never find what I’m looking for, and I always end up giving up on them or if I get rejected I feel like I’m not good enough.
I’ll never forget the day I found out the guy I was dating was not a virgin. I was so in love with him and never fathomed this would be a part of our future together.