With all the backlash over black women’s use of the word thick to describe a wide variety of sizes, it’s not surprising that “plus-size” is seen as equally ambiguous.
No one wants to be badgered with a million questions from someone trying to figure out “just how big are you,” so perhaps this site eliminates all that drama.
To put it as nicely as possible, it has been brought to my attention that men have an entirely different understanding of the word “average.” As I said, emails like this one from Kelly have been common over the last week, and I agree with the general thrust of her argument: people lie like rugs.
Couple weeks before you posted ‘My inner fat girl’ in May 2012 I made a profile on OKC. After about a month I got frustrated, deleted my profile and started working on weight loss. ) can a woman honestly describe herself as ‘average’?
Being overweight, you’re not going to be everybody’s cup of tea.Needless to say, I select average and move on to the next question……So, a few days pass by and I’m confident in my body choice selection.That is until so-called “average” men start contacting me. Anyone who has been to a Scottsdale club on a Saturday night, or a Monday for that matter, will know what I mean. I would say I’m pretty slender, but given my Scottsdale, Arizona club scene surroundings, I don’t think my version of slender applies.
Hip to waist ratio is irrelevant when it comes to online dating.