Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
But, alas the way most of us are taught about gender and sexuality means that this is a very real question being asked by very real people. A lesbian is a woman who is attracted to other women. However, just as genitals don’t come in to it initially when you meet anyone else you fancy, they shouldn’t come in to it when you find yourself attracted to a trans guy.We were both dating other people, dealing with identity issues and surviving college, but I silently promised myself that before graduation, I would work up the courage to kiss Parker.When we finally did, a future together seemed instantly inevitable.I am straight and enjoy women, but I'm sick of people questioning their sexuality after being with me. I don't want to be decietful and lie about my past, but I don't want to turn people away either. The way your OP is worded sounds like you don't tell them until you're well in to seeing them? And it isn't just your past, it's your present and your future.Otherwise, how could you say you've been turned down "many times by girls after they learn I don't possess typical male anatomy."............ You know better than I do how limited the options are for constructing something analogous to the male anatomy. Until you make the full transition you have to expect it to be very challenging, POF may not be the best dating site for you.
I have recently become friends with a FTM transgender man, and I find myself very sexually (although not romantically) attracted to him.